I first noticed Phoebe Buckley and Little Tiger about a year ago at Poplar Park. I can't remember where they came that day but the pair really stuck in my mind. I didn't know much about Phoebe then until she made headlines at Badminton earlier this year because she and Little Tiger aka Frostie did a better dressage test than Zara Phillips on Ardfield Magic Star. And why did the press love this so much? Because one is Royalty and the other is from a family of travellers. Unfortunately the next two phases didn't got quite so well with a run out and four time penalties on cross country day, and a cricket score in the show jumping. But, when I ask Phoebe about their experience she is quick to point out that Frostie did nothing wrong
"We just had a bit of bad luck and I had a few blonde moments but she was still fantastic. Horses aren't machines. Anyway, I believe that you learn more about yourself as a rider and a person in the bad times as well as the good." This way of looking at life seems to sum up Phoebe's generous and tenacious spirit.
As a result when I approached Phoebe to help us launch trotontv's Pink My Ride fundraiser for Breast Cancer Care, she didn't hesitate, especially as an aunt of hers had died from breast cancer a few years ago.
"I know from first hand experience the heartache of losing someone close to you from breast cancer. I am delighted to help."
And when I finally met her on the day of the shoot she more than lived up to my expectations. Her fun, open and positive approach to the job in hand was the same as the one she focuses on her riding.
As for Frostie, I couldn't get over how tiny she was. She looked nothing like a four-star event horse who had been three times round Badminton and twice round Burghley. It really is a testament to the courage and talent of both horse and rider that they jump such huge tracks.
Whilst Phoebe was having her photo taken I chatted to Frostie's owner Dr Polly Taylor who told me that the little mare hadn't always been easy and used to stop a lot in the show jumping phase. Later I asked Phoebe about this. She laughed "Frostie can be very naughty and has a real pony streak in her. She used to stop all the time not because there was anything wrong with her but just because she could! She was just pulling my leg and testing me but luckily I'm as bloody minded as she is and so through sheer persistence, as in we're going to keep trying all day if we have to, we finally came to an agreement!"
Once they had settled this argument Phoebe and Frostie were off and running. Personally, I couldn't help thinking that in different hands Frostie might never have realized her full potential. So, how does Phoebe get the best out of Frostie so she can rise to the demands of a four star event?
"I like to let her think she's doing what she wants to do when in fact she's doing what I want. I don't like to squash her because she's so small anyway. But instead I try to build her up, give her confidence. If horses don't think they are amazing, you can't make them be amazing. They have to believe they are a star."
I was so impressed with Phoebes attitude towards Frostie that I wanted to know more about her approach to riding in general.
"To me horses are people. You can't just push and pull, stop and start them. I treat each one as an individual," says Phoebe. For instance, like us some horses are claustrophobic whilst others don't like open spaces. I like to take my time, get to know them as people, find out what makes them tick and what they enjoy. One of the horses I ride is very difficult when you first get on him so I give him the time he needs to sort himself out and then he gives me everything in return. Horses are like us, they all need their 'me' time!"
Listening to her talk it's no wonder to me that Phoebe Buckley has done so well without the best horses in the world, and has maintained loyal owners. Still only 25 I'm sure she has an amazing future ahead of her. And I for one wish her all the best, she deserves it.